What about my piercer?
This is a good question.
Many people get concerned about this kind of piercing. We hear countless stories of clients being asked to remove their underwear, to be answered “Can’t you do it without that?” Of course not.
The piercer will have to clean and examine your parts. They need to know what is possible and what works best for you. Yes, we are all the same, ish, but sizes and shapes vary. The piercer wants to get it right, they want a satisfied customer. They may make suggestions like “I can’t do X because… but I can do Y” or “I can do X but Y would look so much better”. Listen to what they say. If you don’t like it, say so.
Will they judge you? Well yes, but only in the sense of what they can do and how they can do it. They have seen it all before, done it all before. They don’t care. Yes, they will have to touch/hold/move your parts, they are going to stick a needle through it and it has to be done properly.
If you are nervous, say so, but try not to delay the process. The longer you delay, the worse it will get for you and the piercer. It can be over before you know it, and you’ll wonder what you were stressing about.